Preparing for Child Care

Concrete tips for a safe start to child care

Preparing Your Child for a Babysitter – 5 Tips for Success

Starting child care is a big step for both the child and the parents. In this guide, we discuss how to prepare your child for a babysitter and ensure a safe and comfortable first meeting.

5 Tips for Preparing Your Child

1. Speak Positively About the Babysitter

Children sense their parents' emotions. By speaking happily and expectantly about the upcoming babysitter, your child will understand it's a good thing.

2. Get Familiar Beforehand

Look at a picture of the babysitter together and mention their name to your child several times before the first meeting.

3. Keep Familiar Routines

Agree with the babysitter on your child's familiar routines. Knowing what happens next makes the child feel safe.

4. Allow Time to Connect

Don't rush. Give your child the chance to observe the new adult safely from your lap first.

5. Bring a Security Object

A familiar soft toy or blanket provides comfort and helps soothe the child if they miss you.

Instructions for the First Meeting

The first meeting is crucial for building trust. It's recommended that a parent is present at first. Play together and slowly let the babysitter take a more active role. When it's time to leave, say goodbye briefly but clearly – never sneak out, as it can damage the child's trust.

Managing Parent's Own Nervousness

It is completely normal to feel nervous about hiring a babysitter. Acknowledge your feelings and remember that being nervous shows you care. You can ease your anxiety by discussing your wishes and fears with the babysitter beforehand. Once you've shared the essentials, try to trust the professional and be kind to yourself. A little nervousness is part of the process!